Good Guys Don’t Just Happen

(having problems with your guy? here are the right ingredients in turning him into a perfect man :))

Good guys don’t just happen.

They have to be created by women

Backed up by a great deal of understanding

Patience,  creativity and love .

A guy is a lump, like a doughnut

So first you gotta get rid of all the stuff

His mom did to him when he was still a child

And then you gotta get rid of all that macho crap

He pick edup from random beer commercials

And sometimes crazy ideas he got from his friends.

Then there’s my personal favorite…the male ego

This you gotta deal carefully. How?

Three words are always effective

Communicate, communicate, communicate!

No matter how quiet and unmindful he becomes

Whenever you have arguments

Explain what and how you want the relationship to work

But be very very patient on this

Remember, men are constantly drained below

So their brains function at a slower pace too

Never and don’t you ever ever  ask him to change.

Learn to submit to him, he prefers it that way

While you slowly work in making him

The most gentle, sensible and caring person he can be.

Then… he will learn to listen.

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